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At some point in your life, you have to stop asking yourself the question where to begin and simply BEGIN.

At some point in your life, you have to stop asking yourself the question of where to end. When you are successful there is never an ending process, there are only short mental breaks that will prepare you to propel and continue to accelerate your careers, reach your goals, increase your happiness, and life longevity.

At some point in your life, you have to let go of what has been holding your back in order for you to progress and move forward in life. No one ever wants to continue to be dragged by the coat tail of another individual, be puppeteered, or be held back by a string that they have the power to free themselves or break free from.

At some point in our life, we all have to start to live the life that we want to live without the approval of others.

We will all face transgressions. We will all be told no more times than we hope, and we will all be put up to the challenge of proving ourselves, mainly when others feel as though we are unprepared. This means staying prepared for the inevitable.

At some point we have to comprehend that there will be naysayers, dream crushers, and negative reinforcers. But what do we do with that? We continue to stride. We continue to move forward, allowing them to live in misery and jealousy; jealous that you have chosen to take on a leadership position even if its being the leader of your own life and accomplishments.

At some point in your life you have to know when you have met these goals, as you are the only person that is in control of your destiny and exceeding the measurable goals will only lead you to second guess yourself. Knowing when your goals are met will allow you to move forward, thus setting additional goals that will only attribute to you becoming a better you.

At some point in your life you have to set measurable and achievable goals.

At some point in your life, you have to develop and altruistic attitude. This meaning, giving and not expecting anything in return. We often find ourselves having more than most others, those who cannot cope, those who have lost their job, those who are not afforded the same opportunities as we are. At some point we have to pay it forward in our successes but not in ways that will cause financial detriment but those that will result in someone not having to worry about where their meal is coming from the next day. How they are going to keep their lights on for the next month or how they are going to keep a roof over their head, at least for the next month. You must also take into account that you owe no one anything and your success is the bedrock of you overcoming hurdles and busting down brick walls barehanded, without ammunition or weaponry to get to where you are today.

At some point you have to put yourself in a position to pay it forward academically and professionally. We find ourselves to have gained a plethora of knowledge and professional experiences, when are we going to start teaching others? When are we going to start teaching others the skills of the trade that would allow them to accelerate professionally and academically? Most people do not know where to turn. Most people don’t know which questions to ask and often find themselves stuck. Most importantly, most people find themselves stuck because they are still in shock and awe by the overwhelming amount of No’s that they have received in a lifetime and no one has told them yes. What people don’t realize is that it is not about you being told yes, especially by someone who is jealous of you, who is racially biased, and who fail to recognize your potential irrespective to professional or academic experiences.

At some point YOU have to find your place and life and not allow others to put you in a position, but you take the position that your feel that you deserve. You are no one’s puppet. You are not one’s slave. You are no one’s trophy or token. You are who you are, and you are who you say you are. Let no one put words in your mouth to tell you what you should and should not say. Speak freely. Let your voice be heard. Stop whispering and start shouting. Be a good troublemaker. Be THE troublemaker. Let others know that at some point that change is needed, and change is necessary. That change can start with you if you allow it. That change can start NOW.

Respectfully…

I most cases we ask the question of where is the love. This is because we dont feel as though we are getting enough of it.

Love is not a result of getting it from someone else, but a primary factor of you showing it to yourself in every which way or direction. Love is not about someone telling you that they love you but rather showing you. Too often we take for granted the wording of “I love you” whereas in many cases, a person has shown you that they loved or love you but we were too blinded by negativity to actually see it.

Love has no color.

Love has no frame.

Love has not background.

Love has no name. Or do it?

Love does not have to be repeated to you time and time again.

Love does not have to be written or drawn out.

In most cases, love is a feeling. One that is indescribable. One that you cannot pinpoint. One that you cannot attest to.

Love is natural and unnatural and even supernatural.

Love is quizzacle.

Love is deniable and undeniable and questionable.

Love brings happiness and tear.

Love brings bouts of fear.

What kind of life would you life if love was not a piece of the puzzle?

Will you be miserable?

Do think that you would be desirable to other?

Will it drive you mad?

Or will it make you glad?

Love brings about happy feelings. Feeling that all humans aspire to have.

Love bring about increase health, social wealth, and stealth.

From young ages, people were denied love. They never feel what it authentic love and connection was, so that transformed them to be the persons they are today, meaning overcompensating or under compensation.

Lack of love can elicit selfishness, egoism, narcissism, or self perpetuated ignorance.

When people love they love wholeheartedly. They love hard.

When people truly love, that means they are willing to put all difference aside. They are will into comprise, reconcile, and move forward without looking back at situations and circumstnace that tested your love in the first place.

Where is the love?

Hi all. I hope everyone is doing well and taking care of themselves unselfishly.

We all must take into consideration our personal well-being, otherwise we can become useless to others. When we neglect healths physically and mentally, we put the cart before the horse. We put others before us. We put life on hold for the sake of others. Start listening to you wants and needs, and start doing for your, as no one can do it better.

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To be afraid means, being too scared to live and let go of what is holding you back.

Being afraid means, you have lost your direction in life. You have become number, not know where to go or which direction to take. But why? And at whose expense?

Most people that reside on this earth are running scared. The running is a result of them running from themselves and into something that will never be appreciative nor understanding of who you are are in the same way that you appreciate and understand yourself.

In life we are all taught lessons. These lessons come from our personal experiences. It saddening that most people feel as though certain experiences are supposed to stick around when in reality these situations and circumstances are just what they are, passerby’s. When we hold on to passerby situation, that is a result of us holding onto something or someone that has come into our life as a lesson, but not for the longevity of it.

You feel that the situation is good…too good to be true, failing to acknowledge that things can be much greater. In doing this, you have taken the eye off the prize. You have become not only immune or acclimatized to a certain situation but you have reduce your chanced and outlooks in life and prosperity.

Being afraid is not going to get you anywhere but stuck in the same situation that you have landed it. Being scared contribute to anxiety, depression, and stress.

Being scared leads to self-uncertainty and self-doubt. Why would you want to characterize yourself as being this person? You are a person of worth, dignity, integrity, and potential. You were put on this earth for a reason, a purpose. It is up to you to find your purpose. However, it is God that will open door and windows, and move people out of your way in order for your to reach this purpose. Being scared will only result in your show that you are not ready to become your true self, even when its right in front of you, God will not allow you to see it. Why, because he know that YOU are not ready. Get ready and Stay ready. Stop being scared, anxious, and fearful, of situations that is not threatening, harmful, but can lead to life satisfaction and longevity. When you allows these mental states to supersede your cognitive processes, you only hinder and harm yourself unnecessarily.

In order to start living the life that we deserved or become the person we aspire to be, we have to live and let live. Again, just because a person have come across your path and has landed in your life does not necessarily mean that they have to stay. This is a perfect example of live and let live. Leaving the perfect lessons of what they have to teach so that you can become a better person. Once you have got what you needed, move on and stop hanging on.

Being brave means that we not only acknowledge our strengths but out weaknesses as well. When we have the mental capacity and strength to turn out weaknesses into strength then we have come to prove that we are on our way to become fearless and not caring about others perceptions of who we are or who we aspire or desire to be. Let go and let live, means essentially letting go of your old or current self and letting your new self shine through. allowing you new self to LIVE darling, worry-free and doubt-free.

BE A DIE HARD FOR YOU AND FOR YOU ONLY???