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Today we people of all colors, shapes, and sizes continue to walk the streets in protest for equality and the elimination of racial, opportunity, and freedom disparities. Mr. George Floyd was laid to rest on June 4, 2020, as thousands of onlookers line the streets to witness his burial as they did his tragic death. Millions of people continue to mourn and grieve, but what does this mean for us, all of us, all men and women as a unity?

Is the lines of racial inequality to remain in solidarity? Or are we going to continue the fight or go back inside and pull the shades where everything will go back to normal? Ordinary meaning police still killing our black men for no potential reason. To blacks be being considered not only a target, but a threat and a danger to society.  To black men and women being denied equal employment and academic opportunities, promotions, and salary increases.  Will the glass ceiling and pay discrimination be removed not only for blacks but for women as a whole.

People are now using the term bad apples when it comes to police brutality, but this ties into something much more profound. This ties into organization, industrial, governmental, and institution structures. This ties into all aspects of life on individualistic and collectivistic manners. Blacks are not asking for superiority, they are asking, NO, they are demanding that blacks and all people of color be treated fairly and are given the same opportunity as their white counterparts. Blacks are not evil; they are not a threat but will protect their virtue and stand for what they believe in. Blacks are not seeking handouts as they will work just as hard as anyone else or harder. Blacks do not lack intellecutal ability; its that, they are not afforded the same educational opportunities of entry into specific colleges or universities as others.  Even when blacks are accepted into prestigious schools, they are not offered the same assistance and attention as those who possess as caucasian descent. In most cases, they are ignored and not provided with the same level of attention as nonblacks and others; and they are not provided with resrouces that would aid in a successful completion.
There are some scholars/teacher/instructors that possess distasteful attitudes toward nonwhite/nonindigenous persons. If all persons, professional or not, possess an ethnically and culturally sensitive and diversified disposition, it would add value and substance to so many lives. It would allow people to approach situations differently. It is not just about black verses white, as there are whites vs. white, blacks vs. blacks, others vs. others, and so forth. No one…no one should be afraid to walk down any street in this place we call American, the land of the free, and a place we call home. These streets were built by the hands of man. These roads are public property, and anyone and everyone have to legal right to use them as they see fit. For business and organizations who have put out comments related to the Black Lives Matter movement and to support inequites in all facets of life, are they merely following a movement to make their business practices look better or will they take a stand and take action to implement equality in their hiring and promotion processes. What about the business that have not released statement, will they continue business as usually, will those that do not promote racial equality continue to engage in discriminatory action and go against any Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) Act that has been set in place to protect all person based on their physical and nonphysical characteristics. The unempllyment rates continue to rise for black, Asian, and Latin Americans, and others, but has started to decline for white Americans, why is that? Why is it conducive for white Americans to return to work but not black and Latin Americans? This is simply and illumation of employment disparities that has existed for so long and if America as a whole don’t take a stand together, then situation will remain the same and essentially worsen.

Touching on the subject of cultural and ethnic sensitive demeanor and attitude. The year 2020 has put people in position that they never thought possible. Middle-class people are suffering just as much as the lower class people. People mental capacity is being challenged and their social enrichment has shifted to computer-mediated communication. People will may need therapy to regain a sense of self-efficacy, self-actualization, and to increase their self-esteem and reduce ill-feelings related to future endeavors.

I say all this to say that given that therapy continues to face backlash and stigmatization. Most people who wish to engage in therapeutic practices, refuse to do so, but not solely on the stigma that is associated with its practices. But on the bases of the clinicians and therapists that are providing the services. Researchers Meyer and Zane (2003) found that because most clinicians and therapists are not culturally or ethnically senstive, some people find the services to be a disservice and dissatisfying, particularly blacks. Blacks who engage in therapy felt that the service providers only made the situation worse which resulted in them not following a specific treatment plan appropriately or not following it at all (Meyer & Zane, 2013). It is true that black people have suffer the most this year, 2020, according to what is being reported, and that they are most susceptible to contract the Coronavirus, to being laid off of work, racial dispair, medical maltreatment and malpractice, redlining, and higher loan rates. It is not that most black Americans suffer from higher rates of heart disease than any other race or are more likely to die from poor health. Its that they understand and they have always been the victim of medical malpractice that most black people don’t trust physicians to provide them with the same quality care as they would a white person.

To end this, the battle continue. People who are consider minority, less privileged, and a treat to society will have to continue to fit their way through so many doors, even those that are opened and unlocked. They will continue to be looked upon based on physical characteristics and not by the content of their character. Let no one force or coerce you into going against your true values and beliefs. You are your own person.

I love you all and lets please stay safe during these multifaceted and systemic trying times. We are America. We are ONE. No one can win this fight alone, as it WILL takes us as a nation to fight off these bullies we call racists and facisms and the coronavirus.

References

Meyer, O. L., & Zane, N. (2013). The influence of race and ethnicity in clients’ experiences of mental health treatment. Journal of Community Psychology, 41(7), 884-901. https://doi.org/10.1002/jcop.21580 

Social isolation has transpired into a new norm due to the CoronaVirus 2019 (COVID-19) pandemic, but when we analyze the playing fields, technology itself has been the byproduct of social isolation since its existence. Researchers of Pew Research Center, Hampton, Sessions, and Her (2009) found that before the release of this viral plague, technology, particularly smartphones and the internet, has pulled people away from traditional (physical) gatherings and social interactions. Hunt et al. (2018) further this notion speculating that most people, specifically adolescents and young adults, those born into the digital era, preferred communication and socialization through computer-assisted aid, thus avoiding physical encounters. So, given the current nature of the unprecedented circumstance, this is without consequence to this populations but can be detrimentally stressful and conflict-inducing for parents, couples, and others.

Being forced to say indoors for weeks to months at a time and being unable to engage in outdoor social proclivities can be stressful for anyone. However, depending on the people or persons that are locked inside with you it can produce significant benefits and implications. Advantages are related to no travel time for some, and being afforded the ability to multitask and conduct business as usual from the privacy of your own home. People are learning and working from home, some in their pajamas, or while sitting in front of a television. People can engage in online communities and social networking sites. As people still have access to various technologies, the internet, mobile devices, that provides permanently online and permanently connected (POPC) capacity (Parry, 2019), which keeps them virtually interlocked with peers, colleagues, and family members. Modernized tech trends like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Zoom, Google, the internet, and online communities generally receive more traffic than ever before, which has mandated speedy modifications and renovations. According to Anderson and Vogels (2020), it would be detrimental if technical outages or digital disruption were to occur amid this pandemic. This is particularly true for the most vulnerable groups, elderly persons whose preferred method of communication is face-to-face interaction, but given this worst-case scenario, they have succumbed to rely on technology for social richness. Relative to such, research has found that when older adults use technology, it can proliferate their sense of connectedness and health while systematically reducing feelings of loneliness (Chopik, 2016), henceforth, social isolation. Though technology has dimmed and weakened person-to-person interactions and people have substituted virtual interactions for real-time happening, researchers at the University of Pennsylvania also found that excessive use technology is linked to increased levels of anxiety, depression, loneliness, particularly among young adults. They have too found that reactive loneliness, as people who live alone, have relocated to a new area where they do not know anyone, are recently divorce or experienced the lost of their loved one can also experience increased levels of lonesomeness (Novotney, 2019). However, the resolve for the youger generations as a way to ameliorate these adverse feelings, emotions, and enhance their psychological well-being is through the diminution of time consciously embedded in virtual worlds and being more mentally involved in physical environments and interactions (Hunt, Marx, Lipson, & Young, 2018). 

Technology has been proven to provide users with a sense of connectedness, belongingness, autonomy, authenticity, reduced lonesomeness, as well as the wherewithal of self-representations and management, and to step out of their actual self and into their desired self (Triberti, Durosini, Aschieri, Villani, & Riva, 2017). Digital communication infrastructures offer digital dexterities for persons to engage in corroborative and collaborative undertakings. Technically-based communications, during physical, social isolation does not mean mental isolation as people can use this time to reevaluate the life significances and strengthen family bonds. Millions of Americans were unfortunately terminated from their jobs, forcing them into financial and psychological turmoil. However, as a significant advantage is that some people have shown profound resilience and compassion for others, those affected and unaffected.

Conversely, people have started to release their inner creativity and constructed a diversified worldwide. Futuristically, people are conducting critical research on their future endeavors and navigating methods to sustain self-efficacy, self-actualization, and personification, and have started to employ self-care into their daily activity. Furthermore, this current run of the mill experience has caused people to pay more attention to their health and combat life complexities. 

The lack of physical accessibility to others due to the risks of exposure and transmission of this ghostly and inherently deadly disease has remarkably increased anxiety and concern. No one knows what the results would entail. No one knows when this will end. Nevertheless, being forced into social isolation is not necessarily a bad thing and can be quite proliferating. The use of technology for socialization, when monitored and used appropriately, can add substance to an individual’s life, increase their life satisfaction, psychological and subjective well-being, produce social richness, and reduce adverse feelings and emotions.

References

Anderson, M., & Vogels, E. A. (2020, March 31). Americans turn to technology during COVID-9 outbreak, say an outage would be a problem. Pew Research Center. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/03/31/americans-turn-to-technology-during-covid-19-outbreak-say-an-outage-would-be-a-problem/

Chopik, W. J. (2016). The benefits of social technology use among older adults are mediated by reduced loneliness. Cyber psychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 19(9),  https://doi.org/10.1089/cyber.2016.0151

Hampton, K. N., Sessions, L. F., & Her, E. J. (2009, November 4). Social isolation and new technology. Pew Research Center. https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2009/11/04/social-isolation-and-new-technology/

Hunt, M. G., Marx, R., Lipson, C., & Young, J. (2018). No more FOMO: Limiting social media decrease loneliness and depression. Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, 37(10), 751-768. https://doi.org/10.1521/jscp.2018.37.10.751

Novotney, A. (2019, May). The risks of social isolation: Psychologists are studying how to combat loneliness in those most at risk, such as older adults. American Psychological Association, 50(5), 32. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/05/ce-corner-isolation

Parry, D. A. (2019). Permanently online, permanently connected: living and communicating in a POPC world. Information, Communication & Society, 22(12), 1841-1844. https://doi.org/10.1080/1369118X.2019.1590441   

Triberti, S., Durosini, I., Aschieri, F., Villani, D., & Riva, G. (2017). Changing avatars, changing selves? The influence of social and contextual expectations on digital rendition of identity. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 20(8), 501-507. https://doi.org/10.1089/cyber.2016.0424

On one end of the spectrum, the COVID-19 pandemic is still in full effect. People, particularly underrepresented and underserved populations, continue to lose their lives due to this ghostly viral plague. People continue to self-isolation to ensure the safety of others. And people continue to wear their mask to omit the risk of spreading the virus to others given that they asymptomatic. However, looking at the other end of the spectrum, people, specifically black Americans, continue to lose their lives to the hands of others, particularly law enforcement, those who have a civil duty to protect the lives of everyone, similar, or polar opposite. 

On May 25, 2020, the world watched as the life was unlawfully and unnecessarily taken from a Minnesota resident, Mr. George Floyd, where he pleaded for his life, bellowing the words, “I can’t breathe”, and calling for his mother. Yet, the four Minnesota police officers stood, along with multiple passerby and onlookers, stood and watched while one of the three officers lynched Mr. George Floyd, pinning him down with his knee to his neck for approximately nine minutes, without struggle and while being detained by handcuffs. The office showed no concern for Mr. Floyd’s unrest and was not charged for his murder, nor were the other three officers held accountable for their lack of intervention and lack of judgement.

As a result of reduced swift and expeditious efforts to bring charges against the perpetrators, millions of people, Americans and other countries, have taken to the streets to protest injustice, inequality, police brutality, civil unrest, for civil rights, and to bring the nation together where we all come together and stand together from this day forward. Some individuals are peacefully protesting, they are well-behaved and abiding by governed rules, while others substantially and obstructively bring havoc and upheaval. People are burning buildings and cars, looting, destroying small and large businesses just to make a point. People are putting their livelihood at risk, blacks, whites, Asians, Indians, Chinese, and others, everyone of all nationalities and ethnic background, to show that this is not OK. There are however, some person that are egregiously going against what the rallies and protest stands for, as Antifa and antiracial groups have used peaceful protests as an ostentatious crutch, leverage, to blend in and make a mockery out of what was supposed to be a good and respectful deed. 

Most of us look to leaders to determine which actions we would take. Most of us look to friends, family, significant others, to decide what is right and to determine where we stand. If we all took it upon ourselves to become our own leaders, our own person, a person who stands in their own right, and stop being followers, then Mr. George Floyd situations could be avoided. This is not to say that this is the answer, but what we all know and have known, and will continue to know tomorrow and for the rest of our lives is behaviors are sparked from attitudes and ignorance. Our attitudes guided by our upbringing. Our attitudes, moral, values, and hatred, starts at home through our upbringing. Children take on the attitudes of their parents, and if their parents have an outright hatred attitude then the child is going to possess those same characteristics. It is not until one steps outside of their comfort zone and take on an attitude of their own that things in life would change. People don’t have an innate need to hate, bully, chastise, kill, or steal. Nor do they have a distinctive need to carry out frivolous, malevolent, or ill-intent behaviors. There have and will continue to be dynamisms of inferiority and superiority. But when it comes to humanity, there is no hierarchy to say that one person should be treated better than the other, especially when it comes to life or death situation.

The inevitable is going to happen and people are going to die, but they don’t have to die by the hand of others who feel as through their lives don’t matter. All lives matter, blacks, while and whoever you claim yourself to be. People who live in the land of the free should not have to walk around like their walking on pins and needles. They should be able to walk around with their head held up high and with confidence. People should feel equivalent and not as though they are denied opportunities because their skin color and who they affiliate themselves with. Some of the most educated, decorated, and lucrative blacks/others are denied opportunities, exiled, and ostracized due to their physical appearances. Even some of the richest people of color/other are still made to feel as they are the poorest in the land. People are fighting for freedom. They are screaming for equality, they are laying down for the law, and they are taking a knee for unity. They are struggling to breathe the air that we all share while walking or running down the street, and while driving vehicles. 

But what does all of this mean for everyone, blacks, whites, Latinos, Asians, and others? What is going to happen once George Floyd is laid to rest? What is going to happen after the pandemic has subsided and we return back to normalcy? What is going to happen when people stop marching, ranting, screaming and yelling they can’t breathe? What is going to happen in American and other countries around the world that have been protesting? Does anyone know? Is there really an answer? Will there ever be equality or swift justices for cases like George Floyd and all those others who proceeds him in unlawful and personal demeaning deaths? Will there ever be equal opportunities in the job market, education, housing and bank loans? How will the socioeconomic, red tapping, and digital gaps be bridges, or will they ever? 

It seems that no one person have the answer to these questions. However, if people of all generations, all ethnical and socioeconomic and cultural backgrounds come together united as one, there is great hope and opportunity that we can lay the unrest to rest. 

To the Family of Mr. George Floyd and all of those who have unlawfully and unnecessarily lost someone to the hands of others.

We are resilient. We will persevere. We will come out stronger than ever, even amid the coronavirus outbreak and incivility.

Updated on June 3, 2020… CNN correspondent has found that all officers involved in this murder will be charged. See link to read more details. https://www.cnn.com/2020/06/03/us/george-floyd-officers-charges/index.html

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Angela Pearce is Doctoral Student at Grand Canyon University in Phoenix, AZ. She’s current working on her Doctoral of Philosphy in Psychology with an emphasis on Technology, Learning, and Psychology. She has working in the IT Community for most of her career as a Computer/Support Analyst, Leader, Administrator, and Consultant. She wishes to aid others in becoming a self-expert, to increase their self-actualization, self-efficacy, and construct themselves a better future and reduce the impact that technology has placed on their livelihoods and interpersonal interactions.

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